SHE was known as the People’s Princess and today we can share special, treasured pictures of Diana, Princess of Wales visiting north Essex.
The popular royal came to Colchester to open the Joan Tomkins day centre at St Helena Hospice on April 26, 1988.
She captivated patients, hospice volunteers and staff, along with the hundreds gathered to catch a glimpse, as she smiled and shook hands with many.
Among those in attendance was Robin Tomkins, the Frinton businessman who generously funded the day centre in memory of wife Joan.
Robin said: “My wife, Joan, died of cancer in 1985 and had quite a difficult last six months.
“I was very lucky I had the resources to give her the backup that was necessary.
“My sister-in-law was a trained nurse and Joan had a wonderful GP, who called twice a day.
“We also had the support of a brilliant Macmillan nurse.
“My wife was anxious to die at home and we had the necessary resources that made her comfortable.
“I realised how difficult it was for people less well resourced to deal with the situation.
“After Joan’s death, I wished to do something to help less-fortunate people who had been on a similar journey.
“I got in touch with the Macmillan nurse and asked what I could do to help people.
“She said what they really wanted at the hospice was a day centre where people could go while they were having problems and also to give support to families.
“I went to see the chairman of the hospice, Chris Holmes, and together we agreed on the provision of the day centre.
“I then went to Alan Hills, the building contractor, and he designed and built the day centre.”
Mr Tomkins has special memories of Princess Diana’s visit.
“It was a memorable day,” he said.
“All my family were there, my children and my grandchildren.
“It was well attended and Princess Diana was very good with the patients.
“She sat down with them and had empathy with them. Extremely good.
“There were people sitting either side of her reading their poetry to her. She had a great gift with people.
“I was delighted to see the day centre being used and it gave me a warm feeling.
“I did something good for a change. I was a property developer and nobody loves a property developer!
“The heart of the hospice is the people working there - the volunteers and nurses who have a very difficult job.
“It’s all about people and they are the most brilliant people there. They are dedicated and do a very difficult job.
“I couldn’t speak highly enough of them.
“Buildings are nothing else but inanimate, but the staff are absolutely wonderful.”
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