Family and friends choked back tears of happiness as a gay couple became the first men to tie the knot in Southend.

Newlyweds - Craig and Steven Elmy-Allison Picture: ROB BROWNE

Craig and Steven Elmy-Allison hope they have struck a blow for equality with the first commitment ceremony for gay men at Southend register office.

Commitment ceremonies were introduced in Southend earlier this year and are the nearest a gay couple can currently get to marriage.

The couple, who had been dating for three years, exchanged rings and declared their love for each other before a registrar. Craig, 41, said: "I popped the question. I did it to prove how much I love him."

Steven, 37, added: "It felt wonderful. Even my mother cried.

"She saw my sister tie the knot but never thought she'd see me as a groom."

Craig said he hoped the Government would change the law soon to allow gay couples to officially marry.

Published Wednesday August 11, 2004

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